you're one of the nicest guys ever, i don't understand why people are so hateful towards you.
I dont get this, i act the same to everyone, with everyone. I dont change with the crowd im in. So i dont see why some people seem to almost "praise" nvm, Like me, then there is such a larger group that would love to see my crucified.
Even if they do know you as a person it doesn't mean they're speaking truthfully. When offered a way to be nasty to someone without consequence, for example by being anonymous, a lot of people grab the chance, and are just nasty for the sake of being nasty. Humans suck, but it doesn't mean that everything they say is true.
bro, fuck one week girl. dont let some obsessed chick be your reason to hold back on a new girl if shes worth it just forget all the other people
I would, but if ya look closely, One-week, is the new ones best friend, and is kind of a puppeteer at the moment. the new girl doesn’t want to jeopardize their friendship. I just need to find a way to get that one-week monkey off the new girls back, its starting to rule her life, (with other things, not even just my situation) and its starting to piss off a large group of people, creating a cluster fuck.
im trying to be the least amount invasive as possible, i dont want to be that dick who comes in, steals the girl from her friends, and is a douche to them.
i want to float in, and be chill with the group.
which brings me to the idea i need to completely assure one-week that im not coming back, and she needs to stop holding on to me.
Which means, i need to break a promise and spill the beans that i know all that i do.
why dont you just date the girl your crushing on? unless she doesnt like you back, but really get some
Sticky situation here. I dated a girl (my first) a few years ago, right? for a week, i wouldnt even of considered it a relationship, we hugged, once? hell, what can i say, i was a lil kid, it was my first, and i said yes to her, cause i felt bad. Well i learned my lesson in that realm, sympathy dating=bad idea=being first guy she dates=bad idea. She now believes (after a few years) that im still hers, and no one can date me. Hence the reason ive been in a relatively down mood. I might have a lil kindling going for this one girl, and me and her have been good friends since i got into highschool. But, shes good friends with the one-week chick.
One-week chick is supper pissed cause i talk to the girls im ‘crushin on’. One-week gets all her friends to be pissed, and rain the hate on the other girl.
i feel like this is all my fault. And i believe also.
One-week chick needs to grow up and realize it didnt work than, it wont work now.
And i do get the fact you date a girl, and her friends are off limits, but its been a few years.
Right. I noticed that 'no one really likes you' ... Well, I wanna know how you cope without doing something maaddd. If you get me?
I get ya. If you mean, as in going crazy and being an ass to everyone. I just dont let the ones who hate me hurt me, pretending to be an emotional tank usually works. I often find my self letting it bother me, and at which point i just call up one of the few who dont hate me, and go skate (longboard), ski, or mountain biking. adrenaline destroys the bad vibes.